CAYA Psychology
Geelong

Therapy for children, teens & adults cope with trauma

Different types of trauma
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder: involves a pattern of trauma-related symptoms that persist after a distressing experience. This can include:

-Intrusive memories or reminders
-Avoidance of trauma-related cues
-Ongoing alertness or hypervigilance
-Changes in mood, beliefs, or emotional regulation
-PTSD can develop after a single event or repeated exposure over time

Complex or developmental trauma: Some people have experienced trauma over longer periods. This can affect how emotions are regulated, how relationships feel, and how safe the world seems.

Trauma can affect people in different ways and doesn’t always involve obvious or dramatic symptoms. I work with children, teens and adults experiencing ongoing difficulties related to trauma, including post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and trauma responses that interfere with daily life.

Many people live with the effects of trauma for years without identifying it as such, often assuming their reactions are just part of their personality or coping style. Therapy can help reduce the impact trauma has on your thoughts, emotions, and day-to-day functioning.

What trauma often looks like

Trauma isn’t only about memories of past events — it often shows up in how your body and mind respond in the present.

Common experiences include:

  • Feeling constantly on edge or unable to relax
  • Strong emotional reactions that feel hard to control
  • Avoiding situations, places, or conversations that feel unsafe
  • Sleep disturbance or intrusive thoughts
  • Emotional numbness or feeling disconnected
  • Irritability, anger, or difficulty regulating emotions

Your experiences don’t need to meet a specific threshold or label to be valid.

How therapy can help with traumatic experiences

Therapy aims to reduce the ongoing impact of trauma, rather than forcing exposure to distressing memories.

Therapy may involve:

-Understanding how trauma responses are maintained
-Developing strategies to manage emotional and physical reactions
-Gradually reducing avoidance in a controlled, safe way
-Increasing your sense of choice, control, and stability

The goal is not to erase the past, but to help it hold less power over the present.

My Approach

Client centred: We focus on what matters most to you

Practical and Grounded: focused on day-to-day coping, without over analysing

Collaborative: You are not pushed faster than you are ready to go

Evidence Based: Uses principles of Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - Trauma (TF-CBT) in a flexible, supportive way

Is therapy right for you?

You might consider support if:

  • Trauma-related reactions are interfering with your life
  • You feel stuck in patterns of avoidance or emotional overwhelm
  • Your responses feel out of proportion to current situations
  • You’re managing more than you want to on your own

You don’t need a formal diagnosis to seek support.

Therapy details

  • Therapy is available for children, teens & adults
  • Sessions are offered in person and via telehealth
  • Appointments are confidential and paced to your needs

If you’re unsure whether what you’re experiencing is PTSD, we can explore that together.

Taking the next step

If you or someone you care about has been affected by trauma and you’d like support, you’re welcome to get in touch to discuss whether therapy might be a good fit.

Frequently asked questions

What does a psychologist actually do?

A psychologist provides a structured space to talk through thoughts, emotions, and patterns that may be contributing to stress or difficulty. Sessions focus on understanding what's going on, identifying unhelpful patterns, and developing practical strategies to manage challenges more effectively

Why aren't there reviews of you/your clinic or testimonials?

In Australia, psychologists (and other health professionals) are not allowed to use client testimonials. This rule is to protect clients' privacy and to avoid creating unrealistic expectations about outcomes.

Instead of reviews, it can be more useful to focus on the connection with your therapist. The first session is an opportunity to get a sense of how we work together and whether the approach feels right to you.

Do I need to have a clear problem before I book?

No. Many people start therapy without a clear explanation of what's wrong. Part of the process of therapy is working together to clarify concerns and priorities over the first few sessions.

What happens in a first appointment?

The first session usually focuses on understanding your background, current concerns, and goals. You can ask questions about the process and discuss what you would like to get out of therapy. There is no expectation to share everything all at once.

How is therapy different from talking to friends or family?

Therapy is a confidential, structured conversation guided by professional training. The focus is on patterns, strategies, and practical change rather than informal advice or reassurance.

What do we actually talk about in sessons?

Sessions focus on current challenges, relevant past experiences, and patterns that affect how you think, feel and respond. The content is guided by your priorities and what feels most useful to address

Will you tell me what to do?

Therapy is collaborative. Rather than giving instructions, the aim is to help you understand your options, learn about your experience of symptoms, develop skills and strategies to try, and make informed decisions about your situation.

How structured are sessions?

Sessions are purposeful and guided by agreed goals. Some people prefer a more structured approach with specific strategies, while others benefit from open exploration. The approach can be adjusted over time.

Do I have to commit to long-term therapy?

No. Some people attend for a small number of focused sessions, while others choose to work together for longer. This can be reviewed regularly.

What if I don't know what to say?

That's common. Your psychologist helps guide the conversation. You don't need to prepare or organise your thoughts beforehand.

Does coming to therapy mean something is wrong with me?

No. Many people attend therapy to navigate stress, changes in life, or improve coping skills. Seeking support is a practical step rather than a sign of failure.

Will therapy make things feel worse before they get better?

Talking about difficult topics can sometimes feel uncomfortable. Sessions are paced carefully to keep the process manageable and focused on constructive change.

What if therapy doesn't work for me?

Fit is important. If something is not helpful, it's discussed openly and the approach can be adjusted. You are not obligated to continue if it doesn't feel useful.

How long does it take to see results?

This varies depending on your goals and the issues involved. Some people notice useful shifts within a few sessions while more complex concerns can take longer. Progress is reviewed regularly.

What kind of results can I expect?

Therapy aims to increase understanding, reduce distress and build practical coping strategies. Outcomes differ between people and depend partly on engagement with the process.

How much effort is involved outside of sessions?

Some approaches include practising strategies between sessions. Consistent attendance and active participation tend to support better outcomes.

How often are sessions scheduled

Many people start with weekly or fortnightly sessions and adjust frequency over time depending on their needs and availability

How long is a therapy session?

50 minutes (plus 10 minutes for your therapist to write notes and complete any administrative tasks).

How do I know if therapy is working?

Your progress towards your goals is reviewed at the beginning and end of each session. Some signs that therapy is helping include clearer understanding of patterns, improved coping, less stress, and changes in how challenges are managed day-to-day.